Been seeing someone casually and I’ve run into something I’m trying to get better at handling. If I make her have a few intense orgasms in a row, she sometimes hits this really intense state where she gets super sensitive, kind of goes blank, has trouble talking properly, and even light touch feels like a lot. She says it feels really good, but also that it can turn into “too much” pretty quickly if I don’t slow down.
When that happens she usually just pulls me close, wants to kiss slowly, and kind of ride it out until she settles. She’s also told me pretty clearly to be careful at that point, and there have been times where she’s said she can’t take more.
I’m not trying to push anything past her limits — just want her to have more of these states without overwhelming her and trying to handle it better. For people who’ve dealt with something similar, how do you usually approach that moment when it shifts from intense to potentially too much? Do you just ease off and stay there, or treat it like the natural stopping point for that round?
Trying to get a better feel for pacing and reading it right.