Okay so I’m NOT married and ngl I didn’t really plan on getting married or even getting in a relationship but I found myself getting to know someone and were talking about marriage and I do want it with them. He’s 25 and I’m 20. What I never understood when people spoke about marriage was that it’s “hard” but I don’t know what’s the hard part. I can’t seem to wrap my head around what could possible be hard or what are the ups and downs? Ofc not everything is perfect but like what are y’all talking about when you say ups and downs. If you guys are talking about arguments then I don’t really consider that ups and downs it’s normal. I know this may sound stupid but I was raised by a single parent who didn’t date so never got to see much dynamic of relationships and what ups and downs are or what are the “hard” parts of marriage.
Summary: what “hard” or “ups and downs” lookes like in a typical marriage.