My gf & I have been dating for over a year. I cheated in the beginning but we moved past that. Now just a few arguments but that's all couples
When I met her she was into drugs and drinking while working a job not even making 2k a month but her mom didn't seem to care. In contrast, I don't do drugs, barely drink and make around 64k a year.
That's why I cheated in the beginning, I didn't know if I was making the right choice dating a woman like this. Anyway, I started persuading her to think differently about life and to get a better job. I would apply to jobs for her and prep her for the interview. Now she's at a job making 3k+ a month; it's not the best, but it's better than what she had, & she enjoys it.
Her mom is single, has no social life, and drinks a lot. She's constantly trying to get my gf to leave my place by making up excuses. She did this with her other daughter but she no longer responds. My gf doesn't want to leave but feels guilty if she doesn't.
Recently, we got into an argument because I asked for my key fob back to my apartment. Yes, I know… Anyways, she goes home and tells her mom. Her mom told her if she continues to date me then she's kicking her out. She said she doesn't respect herself and that I want her money (I've never asked this girl for a dime).
My gf doesn't want to break up with me but she doesn't want to get kicked out or lose her relationship with her mom. I think her mom is jealous because she's spending less time with her and is starting to become less dependent on her. Because she didn't say these things when she was at her lowest
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