My bf (22M) and I (21 F) are losing our virginities to each other tomorrow.
It won’t exactly be our first time getting “intimate” since we’d been experiencing things like fingering, nipple play, and other kinds of foreplay but because I expressed I wasn’t completely ready to lose my V card yet, I never experienced penetration.
We are planning to use condoms as our protection, but I have a list of questions that I can’t stop overthinking:
1- what if, because it’s my first time, I don’t stay wet throughout the whole process? I heard friction causes uncomfortable pain, which leads to my second question:
2-If we were to use lube (which I don’t prefer) how do I know which is the best kind? Is it okay if I only use organic coconut oil?
3-DOES THE FIRST TIME ACTUALLY HURT? I’ve been stressed out about this the most. Yes, I am aware I may not even orgasm but because I have zero pain tolerance, being a little terrified is an understatement.
4-How does penetration feel like with a condom from a man’s perspective? Does it really make it less sensitive? I care about his first experience just as much as I do mine.
Any extra tips are welcomeeee