So I (26m) have been with my girlfriend (23f) for 4 years going on 5.
I love her but sometimes her ADHD tendencies and anxiety really do make me wonder if she’s the one.
I guess I’m asking my question because I worry about us long term. I used to think that I didn’t want marriage but my mindset has shifted towards “You fear divorce. You're worried about abandoning someone who can change.”.