To keep it short and sweet. I have been dating “m” for 2 years and our relationship has been solid. We have our up and downs like any relationship has, we’re usually pretty good at coming to solutions by talking out our issues. Our mutual trust has never been broken or put into question by either of us, and I felt so confident that I could trust “m” entirely. that was until today…
M started working at Walmart 2 months ago in the OGP department. I have a cousin that also works in the same department and store with “m”. Today my cousin reached out to inform me of some concerning behavior she has observed… apparently “m” has been flirty with a coworker and today had one of her legs placed across his. My cousin sent me photo proof of this… I confronted “m” and her defense is that the guy is “gay” and not anything to worry about. She did apologize for crossing a boundary… I asked “m” how she knew he was gay and was told that she heard it from other friends of his but never asked or heard it from the guy directly…
Is this breakup material, because I fear it’s just the start of something worse and I don’t know if that trust can ever be rebuilt…
Or Am I overreacting. What should I do from here?
please any opinion or advice is greatly appreciated
TLDR
Girlfriend had her leg on another guy do I dump her