i’m (F20) and the other person is (M21)
atp I’m single bc the way this man thinks i’m gonna wait around for him is crazy, just for a back story ivr been talking to him for a yr now and currently he hasn’t spoken to me in like 3weeks, I have told him that whenever he’s free to call me cuz i wanna talk to him ab how this isn’t working , yet he still hasn’t called me and it’s been well over 2 weeks I always see his snapscore go up which isn’t a problem but it’s a issue when you say your too busy to talk to me yet your on your phone clearly . he says to me to wait till the summertime but why would I do that when time and time again he always last minute couldn’t come and see me , mind you i’m not that far so it’s just kind of upsetting to me bc you can plan a week long vacation with your friends but can’t plan a day to come see me..
i don’t understand srsly like why would i call someone like him my bf if he can’t even do the bare minimum like meet my fam/friends let alone come and see me or ask me out like any person would do when they are interested in someone . idk what he thinks but im sorry you can’t go long periods of not talking to me and then think everything is okay, it just doesn’t work like that . like i understand if he’s busy bc i get it ik what he does for work but it takes 2 seconds to text someone and ask how there day was or a good morning ☹️ i’m just not sure what do to anymore since there’s so much i can do or control. and a psa he won’t let me follow him on ig which isn’t such a redflag cuz what are you hiding , plus don’t you wanna see photos i post of myself tl;dr