I (27M) was with my partner (28F) for 4 months and things were going very well. There were no shifts in energy/texting the days prior from her behalf from my perspective. We cuddled on the couch after dinner and then went to bed and had sex. I woke up at 8am with her not in the bed but, I didn’t think too much of it. I then woke back up at 8:15 with her fully dressed saying “I have some bad news” and she got emotional.
She then gave me the most vague and cliché reasons like “it’s not you, it’s me.” “I’m not ready for something long term” “I need to be alone to heal.”
The day prior she was texting me about taking me to her local farmers market and a new restaurant she wanted to try.
I’m almost positive she’s talking to her ex again according to some detective work on instagram and the top of her followers list is her ex boyfriend..
Edit: I met her parents 2 weeks ago as she told me that she had been talking a lot about me to them. They were lovely people
Edit: the worst part is that I was so healed and intentional for a relationship as I’ve been single for a couple years after some tough breaks. I’m more sad and angry that I gotta spend a couple months recovering from everything as the rebound.