So, i’m 21F and i’m very reluctant to be intimate. Kissing is fine but anything more than that i’d only feel comfortable if we were in an official relationship. I’ve browsed this subreddit and i coming to the understanding that date 3-4 is the expected date for romantic progression. I’m not sure i share that sentiment, is it unrealistic to want to wait? Also would it send the wrong message? Lucky the men I interact with have an idea that i move slowly, so they’re not completely caught off guard when i mention it. What are your guys thoughts on waiting? And how are women perceived if they do?