Hi all,
Like the post title says, I have tried introducing friends to each other only to raise the expectation that I will keep introducing people to each other. It was never reciprocated, i.e my friends were everyone else's friends too while their friends stayed their friends.
Not to sound whiny, but I had a bad time, I felt taken for granted and bullied into introducing people to each other. I learnt to not introduce people proactively "because we will have a good time" and instead let things be natural.
I'm in a new city and I have a friend who's friends I have not met. But has asked me to include him in a future plan with a friend of mine. I don't want things to turn out like they did in the past but would rather not lie.
What are the friendship rules?