Im a victim of female genital mutilation. It happened when I was around 10 and I had most of my clitoris cut off and then some stitching down there that has just made everything very very difficult and uncomfortable. It is rather scary looking i think and I feel like it would bother anyone who had sex with me. Also to have sex with me they would most definitely have to tear open where the stitching was because only the tiniest sliver of a hole was left for menstruation.
I feel like it is wrong to date someone without warning them of this, but I dont know how I bring this up in conversation. Like I feel like it should be a first or second date kinda discussion. I dont want them to waste their time with me if it is something that would bother them. I just feel like it is such an odd thing to bring up in casual conversation.