For me, it’s when they only want to spend money. I once asked a woman I started seeing if she wanted to go on a weekend trip, and she said yes. Shortly after, she wanted me to book an $800 a night hotel. Then every suggestion I made about things we could do, she rejected, saying she wanted to do educational activities. But every idea I suggested got rejected again.
She then said if we were going, she just wanted to go on a shopping spree at the outlets and high end clothing stores. Then she casually told me to make sure I had enough money because she wanted me to fund that shopping spree. I told her she was crazy if she thought I was going to do that.
She looked shocked and said, ‘You’re not going to spend $1,500 on me?’ I said no, and she actually told me, ‘All my men better spend more than $1,000 on me.’ I just told her, ‘And you wonder why you can’t find a man.’ After that, I stopped talking to her. Even then, she kept sending me Cash App requests for $200 and $300 until I finally blocked her.