I don’t know of it’s me or maybe the people i chose or maybe society
But i struggle with bonding in groups.
It feels as if everyone has a manual on this and I missed the memo.
I feel like i either scare people off when I’m bubbly but then i feel that i intimidate or make powerless suspicious if I’m kind and quiet .
I’ve had success with making some in the past but it was in close proximity but later on life and life choices separated most of those friendships
How do you all make and keep friends?
Is it just common interests, appearances or is it truly just gift of gab?