I, 19F, have been talking to this guy 20M on Snapchat for about a year now on and off. We hinted at hanging out a time or two but we officially have plans Monday. The thing about it is, we’ve both agreed that we don’t want a relationship right now and we’re scared to fall for someone. But we’re also both lonely as hell and seem to have a lot in common. So we’ve basically agreed to be friends that make out sometimes. My worry is that he’s going to eventually want to start hooking up (I’m celibate rn) or one of us is going to develop feelings that are unreciprocated, or for this to hold me back in future relationships. So, my question here is if anyone else has been in the same situation and how it worked out. Is this common thing? I mean it makes the most sense for both of our stances. Are we just using each other? I don’t know guys lemme know your thoughts.


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