I’m 36F. Since my second boyfriend who I was with in my twenties (lasted 7 years), I haven’t been able to meet anyone who I liked as a “favorite”. I had feelings, enjoyed time together, lived together… but thinking about them in abstract I couldn’t say they were the people I considered most likeable compared to friends, family… My twenties boyfriend was someone I could think of that way, but haven’t been able to repeat it. Is this normal?