I 35f and my 35m bf have been together a little over a year and I have let him know from the beginning I wanted to be with someone who wants more in life than just working and watching tv. I’ve been struggling with having him want to do things with me. I want to go hiking, fishing, foraging, travel, board games, talking about more than just surface level things, dinners and just go out and explore and do stuff. He’s perfectly fine with coming home from work. Making dinner and eating then working out. It’s basically 3/4 hours after work then afterwards he’s too tired to engage with me. We just watch tv next to each other and sleep. He has days he goes plays basketball with his friends and he goes and hangs out with his parents. I like going to the beach and just wandering around and having deeper conversations. He says I’m asking for too much. I think we just aren’t compatible. Also, he never kisses me and when we do do stuff I’m always unsatisfied because it’s all about him. I see a lot of women complain about their men doing the same thing. I just feel like a roommate to be honest. I’ve been telling him and he’s just like idk what to do. I’ve told him. I need him to be more engaging with me and ask me out and try to get to know me more. I feel like after the first month he stopped getting to know more. And he doesn’t know much about my life and care to learn. I don’t want to break up but I feel like it’s inevitable.
TL:DR
Am I asking for too much from my bf by asking him to ask me more questions, engage in more activities with me and just show me more desire in general.