So after some consideration and thoughts, I reached out the girl I went out with. I told her I am sorry, and let her know she didn't do anything wrong.
She got back to me, and said she was sorry for yelling and calling me names, and that she was just embarrassed because that was the first time she tried to have sex on a first date, and that she was confused on the signals I gave her. Idk which signal specifically she meant.
We texted for a while, I explained a lot of my thought process, why I did what I did. She told me she understood, and she did explain her own thought process.
I decided to risk it and ask her if she would want to start over. She said sure, but only as friends. Which is fine by me.
So thanks to the lot of you who were more… understanding. But I still 100% believe if I was a woman and my date had been a guy, that there would me few to none comments busting my balls. Some of you straight up proved my point and called me gay or a liar.