Hi peeps, hope it’s alright to ask this question :
Tried external stimulation with toys and without toys. Nowadays, I mainly use my hands/ fingers, when I masturbate, externally ( clit/ lips) I don’t want to use penetrative techniques.
Asking for tips, to achieve better orgasms, or real orgasms. I quite feel disappointed, disgusted and unaroused when I’m done.
The outcome feels kinda meh. Like wow, I thought it’d be pleasurable, it just releases the tension and horniness that’s it for me.
Hence why I ask this question, as I feel I might be using the wrong techniques
Thanksssss
Any tips, on anything : hygiene before/ after, how to set the mood etc etc is welcome
Wish I could have used multiple flairs
And PLEASE I’d rather have things be advised on this subreddit than in private ! Thanks ! Not interested in sth inappropriate so don’t bother texting me . Plus it’s probs against the rules
Btw, if my post is inappropriate or I missed some things and asked things I shouldn’t have asked because it’s written somewhere else, please feel free to point it out! I hope I have enough karma to post this here ^^ would love to stay on this sub and not get banned so if I have to delete the post because it doesn’t respect some rules or its written in the wiki please do tell me 🫶 that’d me much appreciated