Ok so I slept over for the first time, super sweet family, 3 cats and 2 dogs and 1 hamster. Everything was fine until he turned off the lights and we went to sleep. at some point we started making out. He told me he was uncomfortable having sex so I thought nothing sexually would really happen but while we were making out he was rubbing it. literally jerked it and i didnt know what to do to. I didnt want to make him uncomfortable or anything so i just pretend it wasn't happening. How could I bring up this up and ask what to do? I felt a little uncomfortable while it was happening. I feel like the obvious answer was to suck it or touch it but I wasnt sure if thats okay since he mentioned no sex until he was ready. which to be fair, he is a little autistic. idk this whole situation is kind of odd. I really like him though.