Hey so me (23M) and my GF (20F) are together for 3 months and i have multiple problems in this relationship (i also talked about it with her, but i doesnt seem to change anything):

  1. She is a very dry texter (no emojis, short responses, takes long time to respond)

  2. She never initiates a hangout, i am always the part who asks if she has time and often she says she will let me know and she doesnt know it yet

  3. She is very busy so we barley see eachother (1-2 times a week and since 1 month she always wants to meet in the city and not wants me to go to her or she to my place)

  4. Weekends she is always busy with learning for school or driving licences (we are from germany so driving licenes is actually hard af and she failed already mutliple times)

  5. I can speak about these things with her and she seems to understand it but her words doesnt match her actions

  6. She has no sex drive at all, i asked her and she said its because of the stress

  7. she has not so much time for me but she does soccer and go to the gym frequently, sometimes she updates me and sometimes she doesnt over text

  8. She changed her profil picture and background on her phone, tablet and watch to something else not a photo of us, when i asked her she said she just wanted to switch

  9. She doesnt have a love Language, she dont gift me something small, she doesnt give random words pf affirmation or anything like that

So tell me, i know i am a overthinker and i am working on it and i am in therapy, but i feel like she is emotional distant but when i ask her she says its all fine and i should think about it too much, she doesnt either and i should give her trust

Tl;dr Help me please, i need a 3rd opinion does she still have feelings on me and its only stress or is the breakup near? If you have any questions just ask


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