My husband and I have been married for 5 years. I come from an abusive household. Growing up we were always struggling financially. Not to mention my toxic ex, with my husband I felt I hit the jackpot. He’s an easy going and a calm guy, it was very easy in the beginning because he never made an issue for anything and everything was going as per my wish. No shouting, no fighting. As time went by, he is just easygoing and doesn’t do anything for this marriage or me. We both earn. But I’m the only one who’s worried about household work, saving for the future, planning anniversaries, planning our career, setting everything ready for the kid we are planning for. So basically all be provides is just some money. I can only hear the love but never feel it. No random I love you’s or hugs. I feel exhausted/suffocated/unloved. I have seen many unhealthy marriages in my life, now I can’t help but feel that I am in one.