So I matched with a guy on tinder and we connected really quickly so much so I went to visit him in his city one week after. We have the same interests and our “previous” relationships were pretty similar. The only thing was he still hasn’t broken up with his bf but didn’t end it yet. Either way he was just looking for friends and so was I. I didn’t think we were going to hook up that weekend and thought I was just gonna have fun exploring his city. We never exchanged nudes or had spicy convos prior to my visit.
Anyways it gets to the end of the night and we end up having sex and hook up multiple times in the morning. I feel like a douchebag for getting with him knowing he still hasn’t dumped his bf. We’re hanging out in the city like normal again for the rest of the day. When it’s time for me to go home he says I never thought we would hook up this trip and I said same. Tbh I would probably hook up with him again it was really hot and he’s a good guy. I just feel awk because he has a bf but I know he’s gonna break up with him.
Now he’s coming to my city next week and we’re still very great friends and I’ve never found someone who gets me like him. Idk if we’re gonna hook up or not but we’re both hanging out with other friends so I think that will lessen the chances maybe.
what should I do?? I found someone who gets me like no one else but he has a bf. Idk how to have the convo with him. I def don’t want to to date him immediately but I enjoy our friendship and just want things to develop naturally. would it be wrong if i hooked up with him next week. overall he’s just a great guy and I see an upcoming summer of fun with him. what would you do in my situation?