I am a 24 year old guy and I have zero clue what to do.
I have zero experience dating people. I have never had sex with anybody either and it's starting to bother me a whole lot. It's been eating me up lately.
I feel so insecure because everyone of my friends and everyone around me my age seem to be hooking up left and right and dating all the time.
All my best friends have dated multiple women or are always talking to new women.
I feel so insecure when people start talking about dating or sex because they all just talk to me like it's the most obvious thing that of course I have had sex before or dated someone before.
I am very outgoing and not afraid to talk to anyone and not afraid to talk to women either.
Lately I have been asking out girls from my school to do all sorts of different things together alone as in 2 people. They always say yes and we go somewhere. But it never turns out to be anything.
I don't know how to signal to them that I am interested in dating. And they never give me anything back. They never invite me out or seem interested at all in returning the favor.
I always have so much fun with the girls I am going out with. They laugh and we make jokes.
But I just don't understand what I need to do?
Should I be more direct? A lot of people tell me not to be direct as it will scare people away.
I am not afraid of being direct but when I have tried they always say no….
And honestly I don't feel like being direct anymore with this one girl I have been hanging out with because she is clearly not interested at all. She is giving me zero signals that she is interested. And I have to drive all of it. I always ask first, I always invite her out. I am done with it. I don't want it anymore.
I just want to be loved and I want to have experience because I feel like it's too late at my age to not have any. I am so afraid of growing up and becoming lonely and never have dated anyone.
I don't wanna use dating apps. I tried and it didn't work and I don't wanna do it again. It gave me horribly low self esteem and I don't want to do that again. I got zero matches after swiping for months. And nobody ever replied to me. I don't understand what I am doing wrong??
I don't believe I am ugly at all. I think I am pretty average. And I've seen people worse looking than me be very successful. I am also 6'4 and people always tell me how easy it is to be a tall guy. But women seem to not give a shit about how tall I am.
I really don't get it? I don't understand what to do at all because everything I do seems to fail and it's starting to be really frustrating and it really is annoying me. I feel so insecure and I don't want to feel this way.
I also want a normal youth like anyone else. I don't understand why it's so hard and why it seems so fucking easy for everyone else.