she 19f cheated on me 19m..twice with the same guy..i didnt jump into the matter anytime and asked her to resolve herself..but she is very inocent and that guy was veryyyy toxic and stuff and i know it wasnt her fault i am suree its not intentional and its her mistake that she didnt keep me updated but still.. i forgave her..but thats not the issue..the issue is that she has never been able to comfort or console me till day and i have done endless tries to teach her that..i have humiliated and embarrased myself by tryint to *teach* her how to console me.. but it is never working..the relationship is sooo frustrating and soo stressfull now but i cant leave her.. it feels like its only me giving in alll the fuxxing efforts and she just isnt..what to do in this kind of situation its eating my head and ruining me mentally and in every way..i can forget alll the cheating if she learns to apologize in a humane way instead of just a sorry a thousand times and just learning to console me through her apologies and reassuring me and comforting me..
tldr its just something stressful and i cant get over it i just need some mental help she cant give after 100s of trys what to do