Im not 100% on how to handle this and im almost at a breaking point we have a kid and live together they font work just look after our kid and go shopping and sees freinds all day while I work 120 hr fortnight's to keep the lights on and buy groceries then come home cook clean do the laundry and everything else that hasn't been done around the house before I go to bed and have 4 hours sleep and back to work so not exactly any free time anyway but when I do get a day off I still have to cacth up on cleaning the house as clothes and rubbish pile up if not addressed by me they were messy when they lived by themselves but not to this extent
I put so much effort into our relationship and having a functioning household that some days I feel like im the parent to both of them all I already feel like I dont do enough and the conversation last night cemented it .
I mentioned that the house was clean and the baby was asleep ofcourse a little bit of silly flirting and was met with "nah I gave up on sex because every time I want it your at work or we are out or there are people over"
The example being last weekend at my freinds birthday in a club they told me they wanted to head off and the reason was to have sex (my brother and cousin were staying at my house so probaby not gonna happen anyway) plus I had work at 4am anyway
Where do I even go from here