I’m 21, and this will be my first time at a bar. For a couple reasons, I’ve lost the majority of my friends as highschool ended and they went away to join sororities and I became a mom. As such, I guess I’m not “tapped in” to what people do nowadays socially, and I’ve always been a bit “off” social skills wise anyways. Ideally, I’d like to make friends, and really wouldn’t mind meeting a nice man. I saw a couple of girls talk about bringing books to the bar but not sure if that will make me appear closed off. Any advice appreciated. As for now, not sure if I want to go to a more divey bar or not.