I’ll preface it by saying we (me, a 30f and my fiancé, 30m) are getting married this fall and we also bought a house a month ago. We’ve already lived together for 2 years prior to this. I feel like since we moved into the house, our relationship has kind of lost its spark and feels like we’re just not as happy and just going through the motions. I’m so sad. This is supposed to be the best year ever, with getting married in 5 months??? But it feels like we’re oddly enough not as close as we were before the move.
Is this a normal experience?
TLDR: is it a normal experience to lose some spark in your relationship after buying a house together? Even if you’ve rented prior to that