Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for just shy of 2 months. We met back in July but have been dating now since March. We are in a long distance relationship but we still get to see eachother every 2 weeks or so.
I just went to see her and I have noticed she has been a bit distant and quieter than usual. She is originally a quieter person but we have always gotten along great and conversation always flowed and we were both very happy. On my trip to her town I noticed she was quieter and maybe more sad. I asked her multiple times if she was ok as I had noticed she was being more quiet than usual and she always said she was ok and fine.
She also had reduced our physical interaction and sex life. I was up there for multiple days and both nights she went to bed saying she was “too tired” when I tried to initiate sexual interaction. She has been working 70+ hour weeks trying to save for a Europe trip which we have booked in a months time and we then have got a place to move in together. She is also expecting and is due for her period.
She was telling me how she was really tired recently. We still had good moments but not as good as our previous trips and I’m really scared she is loosing feelings. I’m not sure if it’s just the build up of work stress and that time of the month but I’m really not sure what to do. She has also been distant and slow like a few hours per time to respond to my messages after this time visiting. Could her actions just be the build up of stress and anxiety?
So in summary I need help TL;DR;