Basically what the title reads…. When men choose porn over connection, what is the best route for women to get their needs met? Without shaming men for preferences that are more visually stimulating, and if visual stimulation isn’t enough for women to climax, what’s the best alternative for a woman seeking closeness with a man that doesn’t want it? But he also will end the marriage if she also decides to outsource? It’s been 2 years. Without wanting to cheat but definitely can’t rely on my husband who just prefers digital over connection and without being shamed or attacked when I express my needs, how do I stay faithful when I also have a desire to be wanted? It seems so much easier for men to have a digital visual hit but that leaves women who need emotional connection starving and on the brink of seducing the first man who pays attention to you!? HELP! I don’t want to cheat but I also am so fed up with laying in bed alone while he escapes to the bathroom every night and then snoring next to me while I’m wide awake just wishing I was being ravished like the women he watches online! Sometimes I think being the non committed sexual woman is better than the loyal wife. I kind of understand this flip in women now! It’s more rewarding for the performer than the loyal wife.