For the past few months I’ve noticed my wife joining swinger groups on Reddit and DMing some of the profiles that post there. She has never discussed any interest in swinging or an open lifestyle with me.
Seeing this has left me feeling heartbroken and insecure. I’ve asked her multiple times if there’s anything she wants to share with me, but she always denies it. Am I wrong for feeling this devastated even though nothing physical has happened? Is she just curious or seeking attention?
I’m scared she’ll eventually respond to one of those “looking for a third” posts while I’m at work. I know she loves me, but I also know how much she enjoys sex. Lately I feel paranoid and like I’m going crazy.
Am I overreacting? Any advice would be appreciated.