23F here in a happy and loving relationship of nearly 2 years to 26M.
i have never had an orgasm in my life and i have decided, by god, i will have one this year.
so far:
– i have been checked out by my OBGYN, everything is in working order
– i’ve spoken to my therapist and she doesn’t believe it’s a mental block
– i have had a total of 7 partners, men and women, and, not for lack of trying, never had an orgasm
– i have had many years of experience of self pleasure but again, no orgasm
– i have tried vibrators, dildos, indulging in kink, different positions, different stimulation, even medicine like viagra and wellbutrin as recommended by my psych
– i have never even made myself cum so i have no idea how to direct partners
– i typically go for clitoral stimulation as it feels the best, and i get pleasure from it, but no orgasm
at this point, i’m truly wondering if it’s just not meant to be. but i can’t accept that.
so if you have any tips or tricks or just want to tell me how you achieve it yourself/make your lady do it, i am willing to try anything. i am desperate. i will be trying anything/making my partner try anything because i WILL cum this year.
thank you : – )