I’ve noticed something about myself and I’m trying to understand it better.I always feel like I’m annoying people even when they seem nice?
I read somewhere that this can come from past experiences where you were ignored when you needed help, or you were made to feel like a burden. Maybe being around unpredictable people can also wire your brain to think that way.
That actually made me reflect, because I’ve felt like this for as long as I can remember.(Childhood)
Even as an adult, I strongly rely on myself. I rarely ask for help not because I don’t need it, but because I feel more comfortable handling things alone. In a strange way, it gives me peace of mind and control.
But I’m wondering: How common is this?
Would love to hear other perspectives.