Last year my 2nd resolution was to ask someone – even platonically "Would you like to stay in touch?" or some variation of that. I could NOT break through this! In fact I have very rarely initiated things at all in my life, but I'm trying to change that. ANYWAY, so yesterday after speaking to someone for about an hour, I said something like "I'm not trying to hit on you, but would you like to stay in touch? In case you're back in (my city) some time for another event?" It probably DID make it easier to ask with her being in another city! ANYWAY, it's easy for me to discount this, but I have been trying to break through that for AGES!