The title kind of says it all. I (28m) matched with a girl on Hinge about a month ago. I usually try to move things to an in person date relatively quickly, after a few messages back and forth. But this girl was hesitant, and I understand. Especially since she was a mom. But we were messaging for a month and I brought up meeting for a coffee or a drink like, maybe once a week? I just asked earlier today, and she said she still wasn't ready. So I just had to call it quits. I didn't ghost her; I told her that I don't think it would work, since she doesn't seem very interested in meeting, and I haven't done/said anything to warrant any concern from her.
I just had to finally tell myself if she really liked me, she would have been more willing to meet up, and I was tired of getting strung along.
It's hard in these streets, but we gotta keep going, because we are all kings and queens and we deserve people who want us as much as we want them. But damn does looking for someone like that suck. Lol