I'm a male in 30s. Average height and weight.
Matched 3 online, and 1 in person.
Basically all 4 of them rejected me by telling me something along the lines of "you are kind and great but I don't feel any connection. Let's be friends instead." I kid you not. All 4 of them. It literally became a cycle.
It would make more sense to me if the dates go horribly, but they are all very positive. We talk a lot about everything, hold hands, and we end up making out (except with 1 of them). We are laughing and smiling. We talk about how we want to see each other again. Then after a week or so, they send me the dreaded rejection text.
I've asked them directly for feedback. 1 said she wasn't sexually attracted. The other 3 don't answer or give very vague answer like "no spark."
Like at this point I am convinced that there is something about me that many women find undesirable. I wish they were more honest so I can work on it and improve but I can't even know what it is.