I’m a 25 years old lady and I feel I’m not pretty enough for a man to like me enough to have a serious relationship with me.
My abusive ex used to say he could find a better looking girl but he was more into personality than looks, that he didn’t like me at first, my boobs are too small and my hips too big.
It happened twice that I liked a guy but they would treat me like I’m replaceable after love bombing me and just tried to use me for sex. It means all the compliments they gave me saying I’m beautiful and they wanted to marry me were fake.
Nowadays I’m talking to a guy, I bought a new dress and asked him if it would look better with straight or wavy hair. He replied “your face only looks good with straight hair because you have a big forehead” (my natural hair is wavy) and said after “you should keep your blonde” (my hair is naturally black and my skin is brown). These comments made me feel insecure and unattractive.