He hates the fact that I don't answer my phone when he calls and he gets my VM. I have my phone on silent and I call him back when I see the missed call.
I'm more of a texter during the day, and then calls in the evening type of person. He doesn't like texting at all.
I'm trying to see things from his perspective and for us to see we have different communication preferences, but to find a way that works for us both.
I've acknowledged the fact that I can change the notification so it only rings when he calls.
The issue is, he hates the fact I don't answer personal calls in work hours. He said he's not having it that I can't do that. He can answer his phone during work time.
My previous job was an office which was deadly quiet, and we couldn't take calls. And my current job I'm either training a group, sitting on a training course or in meetings. .. and then working.
I'm struggling with this one as I'm trying to see if from his point of view, but I just can't walk out of work and answer a personal call for a 10/15 min chat as and when … And he's refusing to believe that I can't. How would you handle this? And out of interest how many of you would be able to just answer personal calls?