My husband and his ex dated for 2 years and broke up about 8 months before we even met. We’ve been together for 5 years in total, married for 2. I’ve had issues with her since the beginning of our relationship. She still posts constantly about him and views my social media accounts.
In the past she has messaged my husband wanting to be friends (which I had no problem with because I understand they were friends before they dated and I trusted my husband) but then she tried to change it to start dating again knowing he was with me.
She posts all the time about how much she misses him and how she would get back together again if he asked. And I know my husband is not giving her any indication that he is open to this or that there would even be a chance.
I know the obvious thing to do would just be to block her on everything and not worry about her but she has bad mental health issues and I worry about what that would do to her. I don’t want to be responsible for something happening to her.
So my question is: Do I message her and talk to her? Give her some closure? Or do I just ignore her?
TIA!