i (23m) and a virgin and i’m struggling with a major disconnect with my size
i know my stats (8.1 in length and 5.3 in girth) are big and have posted on reddit before for validation and genuine curiosity, and multiple people (guys mainly) have told me but i still haven’t accepted it. and because i have zero real world experience, i have this mental block where i still feel small or not enough.
no matter how many times i put myself against objects, put it inside any hole or measure with tape measurements, its still a mental block.
i’m worried that this is messing with me and why i haven’t actually had sex yet and when i do. i find myself constantly comparing myself to the idea of guys who are “huge” that women talk about assuming i don't measure up to that standard. it’s pretty much a main reason why i haven’t approached girls because imm worried about judgement.
i wanted to know if anyone has dealt with this type of dysmorphia or body anxiety and how to get over it? any advice is appreciated.