I'm not entirely sure what good can come from this post, maybe get some advice or hear from someone who has been in a similar situation and got out of it, or maybe let someone going through something similar feel less alone.
Im a 33yo man living in London and I have never felt so invisible to the opposite sex in my life.
I left home at 25 to go travelling, I had been a general hospitality worker / not really knowing where to go in life and living at home with a parent, got back to England from my travels at 31 and Im right where I left off!
Back in hospo, back at my parents and trying to figure out what to do next.
The way I understand it is, any younger women (mid 20s) who would date and like older men, like older men because they are more stable in their lives and know what they are doing.
And same for women my age! They dont want to go out with a man child, can't blame them.
Im trying my best, I'd say I'm adverage looking, I go to the gym, I'm looking for other work (it aint easy), I'm getting involved in hobbies and keeping up with dating apps.
But still, it feels like everyone around me is on track, dating, new fun and exciting things to look forward to that makes them much more attractive and exciting to be around.
Where as I feel like a bit of a boring old troll 😂
Whats a man to do? Up and leave London to somewhere with a smaller dating pool so I'd have more of a chance? Or just continue working on my self and hope I get somewhere before I'm totally decrepit? 😂