I (21f) gave a bj to my bf (25m) for the first time. He ended up finishing in my mouth, which I agreed to beforehand. However, I didn’t know what to do with his cum once we were done and I didn’t really think about it until I was in the moment. I know some women will just swallow it, but I didn’t have the expectation that I’d do that. However, when he finished, we were in bed and I kind of had decision paralysis, not knowing if I should get up and go to the bathroom to spit it out or if I could/should spit it out without getting out of bed. And then my bf just started cuddling me and so I decided to swallow it, but I’d like a better plan for next time. Swallowing honestly wasn’t the worse thing in the world, but I don’t see the purpose of doing it if I don’t have to. For those who typically don’t swallow but will let your s/o finish in your mouth, what’s your go to strategy for spitting out when they’re done?