hi hi im a 22 year old woman in college who is about to graduate. i got out of a long term, pretty life-changing relationship about 10 months ago, and in the first 6 months was feeling very desirable and sexy, especially by the guys around me and can admit it was validating. however, now months later, i think im very unapproachable to guys almost like i lost my aura. i'm not 100% against dating, but i definitely am only interested in hooking up right now. however, i get kind of down when i realize guys dont approach me when i'm out and about, but i can also admit that im def a part of the problem because anytime i see a guy staring at me or looking like he would approach me i have a look of disgust on my face or avoid eye contact (other than them usually being God awful ugly or maybe it's just a fear of rejection or not wanting to waste my time) anyways, i think i know that i am being unapproachable, but also i think i may just not be in the space to date or even hook up with guys atm. also, my only reliable options right now are not what i want and i'm too prideful/scared to spin the block on my old hoes (also seems like the doors have closed). generally speaking, though, i also just find guys to be pretty annoying these days. and, yes, i have considered the possibility that im just gay, but women don't excite me in that way, unfortunately, bahahaa. anyways, advice? am i just a complete misandrist now or what lollll