A guy that I was messaging on a dating app unmatched after I asked if we could do a video call before meeting in person. He suggested we meet, and then I asked if we could do a video call before meeting. He asked if I was shy. I said no, I just prefer to have a video call before meeting in person. That same day, he unmatched. As a woman, I don’t feel comfortable meeting a stranger on the internet unless I can see them on camera and have a conversation first.