Just learned the girl I'm going on a date with, is dating other guys. We have gone on 2 dates and 1 2-day trip. We kissed many times and been intimate, so I thought the natural order is for her to want to continue dating, especially that the trip was a peak experience for both of us. We enjoyed it a lot, went to many different concerts, kissed passionately a lot, smoked weed at the beach. After the trip, she'd gone cold.. delayed texting.. didn't want to meet me for 2 weeks. So I was about to kinda end things when she said she wanted to meet me next week. I found out through friends that during this time she had been prioritizing other guys or girls and been on dates, while having me as a backup option. What do you all think?