I met this guy on Tinder about three months ago, and we’ve been on several dates and had a sexual relationship. At the beginning, he told me he wanted a future with me, even talked about getting me pregnant, and said he loved me.
However, I always felt like he was hiding something. I asked him multiple times if he was in a relationship or seeing someone else, and he always denied it.
This past weekend he suddenly disappeared and said he just needed time to “recharge,” but I didn’t fully believe him. I looked into it and found out he has actually been in a relationship the entire time we were seeing each other. They are engaged and seem to have bought a house together.
I’m heartbroken. It’s painful to realize someone lied to me in this way, and I also feel really bad for his fiancée. Once I found out, I blocked him because I don’t think he deserves closure from me.
Now I’m unsure what to do. I think his fiancée needs to know the kinda person she will marry. I have her Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat. But I’m also scared, he knows where I live, my car, and I live alone with no family in this city, so I worry about potential consequences if he gets angry.
I don’t know what the right thing is to do in this situation.