I 23M recently went through my 26F girlfriends phone, we’ve been dating for 6 months. When I went through her phone I went to her hidden photos and there was a NSFW video of another male masturbating, the video was dated over a year before our relationship, I also saw other stuff in the hidden folder of her also dated over a year ago. I also saw that she has 2 hidden Instagram accounts that I wasn’t aware of. When checking her DMs I saw she still follows a guy who she met on tinder. I also saw in the DMs her conversing with her male friend nothing out of the ordinary until I see that 4 years ago she had sent him revealing pictures of herself in a dress. I saw other stuff that I wasn’t too pleased with either but I don’t wish to make the tangent any longer. The real question at hand is how do I deal with this disgust towards her that I’m feeling after seeing everything? There’s no active cheating or anything of the sort, yet I still feel this deep roots disgust towards her. Any help?


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