So, I started getting a good amount of success on dating apps ever since I returned from being abroad. I'm not necessarily sure what has changed in people's perspectives of me, but I will not question this good thing haha.
I think maybe I've become a bit more empathetic and am less hard on myself, and probably take things less personal.
Anyhow, I'm wondering how people manage talking to multiple people? I'm essentially talking to two girls quite intimately at the moment, and there's a few other girls who I'm either doing voice messages with, or we hooked up and it's still an open door.
Both of these girls have already begun talking about being in a relationship with me, even though I have not gone on a first date with either of them yet. (One is out of state, and we are organizing meeting up next month, the other I am taking out next weekend. I get busy with work and school) Maybe just the fact that they are bringing up a relationship so early is a red flag? But I believe I am more geared towards a long-term relationship anyhow. Im 25 and want to find a partner who I really vibe with.
ANYHOW, how do I go about navigating talking to multiple people like this? I don't want to hurt anyone, but I also don't want to jump into a relationship until I feel comfortable with an individual. Im thinking right now, I will continue to date, and if someone mentions wanting to become exclusive, I can be honest about how I am dating, and let them know what I am looking for in a person before becoming exclusive. But I also have some anxiety, like, especially since I really enjoy talking to both these girls. Thoughts, suggestions?