Me- M GF- F
Hey, so as I'm sure you can tell by the flair I'm having some orgasm issues.
Lately I haven't been able to reach orgasm once I get past a certain point.
The first few minutes with my gf feel absolutely amazing and I have to actively keep myself from reaching orgasm so that the sex lasts longer than 5 minutes and she can reach her orgasm.
The issue is that once I get to a certain point, it's like my penis has become so overstimulated that it becomes numb, not like pins and needles numb, just a complete lack of sensation (other than general pressure).
Personally I'm fine with this, I don't particularly care wether I achieve orgasm during sex and care far more about making sure she orgasms, but she is getting frustrated that I'm not climaxing.
I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how I could possibly avoid losing sensation so that we can possibly have a mutual orgasm rather than just one of us?
Note: After the sex we had this morning she was once again frustrated so I asked her if maybe she would be alright if next time I went ahead and came quickly and then once I was ready to go again (typically 30-45 minutes after) we could have a round two and I would give her as many orgasms as she cares to have.
She seemed alright with the idea, so that's maybe a possible solution, but I know she would prefer us both reaching orgasm at around the same time so any advice to possibly acheive this is welcome.