me 20F and my bf 19M hv been together for 5 months. everything was fine between us until mid March where he suddenly felt very distant. i checked up on him last week and got to know that he has been in this blank state due to burnout bc of which, he has felt very distant from everything around him and said that if I want, I can leave him bc he thinks that he's hurting me with this state of mind that he's in. and ofcourse, i thought that he needed me the most in this situation so I refused to leave and decided to stay.

since then, he never texted first, it's always me who does so from my side and he just replies or reacts. i think that he's not getting any better because he has a lot of schedule piled up but the distance is affecting me. tbh, I started noticing this behaviour of him after April 1 when he was on a trip and his phone was stolen and he also confirmed that he's been this way since then.

idk what I'm doing, am I even doing the right thing by staying and waiting for him to get better?


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