Guys, I need a ground-reality check on some WhatsApp logs. Im not Indian and my husband is a owner of hospitality services. He is usually very cold and strictly transactional with staff which is steward level. I found a chat with a female "candidate" (he said) for a steward position that feels totally off. I want to know if this is standard "Delhi recruitment" behavior or if I'm being gaslighted. (tl;dr)
The Timeline:
Saturday
10:48 AM She texted "Hlw
10:48 AM "Sir"
10:48 AM Husband texted "Hello"
10:48 AM "How are you"
10:49 AM She replied "Badiya ji"
10:50 AM "Seen h kuch"
10:54 AM "Husband replied Nai mein aaj kal travel chal raha h"
10:55 AM "Mumbai mein hu abhi bhi"
That's all. The woman looks nice on DP but honesty i did not interested in that but facts are we are in Delhi and why would he explain / lie this much to random woman to make sure she acknowledges his un-navaiability. Plus he knows this woman from the way he said how r u. So i decided to spark it…
01:58 AM (Late night): I replied: "Im in Delhi now."
01:58 AM: She replies instantly: "Ok. Will come tomorrow. Available to talk"
At this point I was wondering what talk? so I texted "Yes."
My husband wakes up, sees I have the phone. He took the phone to the washroom as usual thought he going to pee few second I realised i should check and found he was texting. It made me so high and it took me many shouts to pull a phone back from his hand. He didnt give me at first ask. I saw, his text "BYE." and suddenly noticed her DP vanishes.
I made whatsapp call out of high at 02:06 AM. 2 times she didnt pick up and she texted back.
02:11 AM: She replued "Sir me apne bhai ko kab bhej du apke pass interview k liye
02:12 AM "Bs yahi puchne k liye msg kiya tha
02:12 AM "He is experienced at hotel lines and cafe's"
I and husband fought. I texted her from my personal number which i saved before and it was showing DP, once i texted DP vanished again.
To be continue. But what do u think???? He still saying im thinking if him too extreme. She is common candidate, previous chat was deleted. (Why?? when he can keep and show me her CV!!?? we are in business together)